I have to compromise.
it is hard, but I believe on my reliable self,
I can handle myself and other people with care.
I just have to learn more about
after thinking for some time, well, in the end I asked my brother
and he gave me such a wise answer.
I even added my opinion to his wisdom response
"only change if it is good? good for whom?"
so the matter is actually only one.
hold yourself, Stell, not everyone could handle you
unless your own self. hahhaha.
enjoy the process of changing, Stella.
I got this link this morning.
an 8-years-relationship-fighter friend of mine
shared this on my WhatsApp group.
Traits for Lasting Relationships
I really touched by the post.
the writers poured their thought perfectly well
and I could blend perfectly with the text.
I observed my grandparents over-50-years-relationships
for about a month, just before I read the post.
I can't agree more with the post, it is really true!
maybe there is some kind of differences
related to how Asian people show kindness and generosity
towards people the care and love.
but overall, the post is GOOD.